always arguing with your partner? thinking that he or she is so annoying? saying that there are others out there better than him or her?
all these will come up in the mind of the people who are looking for a PERFECT relationship. hey there's no such thing lah people. mana ada benda perfect. kita ni hamba ALLAH. confirm lah mesti ada weakness.
bila gaduh, janganlah sibuk nak fikir keburukan your partner je. you pun confirm ada salah jugak.sebab tu jadi gaduh. bila fikir nak break or divorce, trylah ingat balik why you fell in love in the first place. loving someone is not about changing that person to be perfect but accepting that person, his or her flaws and turn them into positive.
what i meant here is not trying to change his or her perangai,contoh, dia banyak cakap, but you nak suruh dia kurangkan cakap. tak bolehla macam tu. from this case, turning that into positive maksudnye anggap yang sikap banyak cakap dia tu sebenarnye your entertainment. maybe dia nampak comel bila banyak cakap ke or try to think that you are special, that's why he or she talks a lot to you. banyak yang dia nak share with you.
tak pun if dia pemalas sangat, janganlah terus nak condemn kata "apesal you pemalas sangat hah?" then terus nak gaduh or tinggal. fikirlah macam ni, sikap pemalas dia sebenarnye adorable sangat sebab nampak manja or whatever, then you sebagai bf or gf yang elok, sepatutnye tolongla push dia sikit. study sama-sama ke, buat kerja sama-sama ke, bagi dia seronok sikit. ini tak. tau nak complain je. camtu sampai bila-bila lah you akan complain seumur hidup sebab ada je benda tak kena.
love him or her for who he or she is. dia dah almost perfect dah tu.trylah. mesti ringan sikit beban tu.
*no offense people <3 *